The Twin Flame journey is an enigmatic one, often filled with the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. Just when we believe we have conquered the most challenging upsets, they often resurface in different guises. This cyclical pattern can be disheartening, especially when we thought we had laid a particular challenge to rest. But as you’ll soon discover, these recurring upsets are just layers of the same core issue, urging us to dig deeper into self love.

The Illusion of Setbacks

Imagine climbing a mountain. From a distance, reaching the summit seems straightforward. But as you climb, you realize that there are various plateaus along the way. Just when you think you’ve reached the top, another stretch of the journey becomes visible.

Similarly, on the Twin Flame healing journey, just when you feel you’ve mastered an upset and are on top of the world, it sometimes feels as if the ground has been pulled from beneath you. An old wound resurfaces, either in its original form or with a new face. But the underlying emotion remains the same. It’s easy to see this as a setback, but in truth, it’s a call to delve deeper.

Peeling the Onion: Understanding Layers of Upsets

Healing, much like an onion, has multiple layers. Every time you address an upset, you’re only peeling away one layer. Beneath it lies another, often more profound and raw. This is a natural progression. The universe, or God, always gives us what we can handle. As you evolve and grow stronger in your journey, you’re equipped to handle deeper layers of your pain and upsets.

The Mirror Exercise and Journey to the Core

The ‘mirror exercise’ is a powerful tool on this journey. Every time an upset resurfaces, use this exercise to feel your feelings, get clear under and love yourself to a place of peace. It’s about confronting the uncomfortable feelings, giving yourself the love you need and healing it layer by layer until you reach its core. When you address the root cause, the surface layers cease to exist.

However, it’s essential to remember that this journey requires patience. Healing isn’t an overnight process. It could take days, weeks, months, or even years. Every individual’s pace is different, and there’s no ‘right’ timeline.

Be Your Own Best Friend

In this intense journey, always remember to be gentle and compassionate with yourself. Taking it one step at a time is crucial. No matter how long it takes, believe in yourself. The love and harmony awaiting you on the other side are worth every effort, every tear.

Furthermore, remember that you’re not alone. TFAS classes and coaching offer invaluable support. Surrounding yourself with a supportive community can make the healing journey more manageable and enlightening.

In Conclusion

On the Twin Flame journey, healing layers of upsets is about understanding and accepting the cyclical nature of growth. Every ‘setback’ is merely an invitation to understand yourself deeper. Embrace it, work through it, and know that with each layer you peel back, you’re one step closer to the ultimate union of love and harmony.